FAQ
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Q: Is there a Clothes check or Lockers available?
A: Yes, we do!
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Q: What is your policy on alcohol and drugs?
A: Most of our venues do not allow alcohol, while some of our venues offer fully licensed bars. Drugs are NEVER allowed at any of our parties. Poppers are okay. Our members are expected to follow the drug policy set forth by the venue. You will not get a refund if you are thrown out of a party for using drugs, being disruptive, or intoxicated.
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Q: Are women and/or trans allowed to go?
A: We are a party for men who play with men. Women are never allowed to attend. As far as trans-men, we honor each venue’s policy regarding who they allow inside their venue.
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Q: Are there Lube and Condoms available?
A: Yes
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Q: Can I bring my phone?
A: Yes; We ask that you please check your phone in at clothes check or leave it in your locker. If you need to make a call, take it outside the play area of the venue. Disruptive members may be asked to leave.
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Q: I saw this ad for CumPlayLA parties where they want me to buy tickets online. Is this really you?
A: Yes, Our Website is CumPlayLA.com We seell ticket on our site only. We only sell tickets on our website for advanced tickets, However you can pay at the door.
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Q: Are your members “safe” to have sëx with? Is everybody “clean?”
A: As with all play, there are risks involved. No one can be 100% certain that they don’t have an STD/STI. If you are uncomfortable with taking such a risk, our event's may not be for you. All members accept personal responsibility for their own health. They make educated choices based on how much risk they wish to take. The idea that someone is “safe” or “clean” if they don’t have an STD or other disease is actually quite offensive, because it infers that someone who has something is unsafe and dirty. Anyone can get an STD/STI for a variety of reasons by no fault of their own. We strongly encourage Members to have a rigorous testing schedule for a variety of health issues. For most things every 90 days is recommended. If you are HIV negative, consider asking your healthcare professional about getting PrEP. prepfacts.org is a good place to find information on that. You will never be judged at our events. We are pro-Choice. Use condoms. Don’t. No one will judge you.
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Q: Do I have to have sëx at our events?
A: No. You do not. Everything you do at our events is by your consent. Play parties have a particular accepted view of consent. That is: You should expect that people may touch you. As most places discourage verbal communication, you can signal to an interested person that you want to play through touch or a nod, or smiling. Or that you are not interested in continuing, with them, by using a variety of signals. Shaking your head. Touching their wrists. Pushing them away. Do not take offense by being declined. After all, you want to be able to do the same. This is a friendly environment. If someone indicates that they aren’t interested, there will be someone near by who is. Keep meeting guys. We suggest a friendly smile when you are turned down, and a yes nod to indicate you understand their wishes. Who knows, they may just need to go to the bathroom and might approach you later. Regardless. All sex is consensual. You do not have to play with anyone that you do not want to. Or you can make yourself open to everyone. If you are new to play parties, watch guys and see how they initiate play. Ask someone to show you the ropes. Cruising is a nearly lost art that can be learned.
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